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The North Carolina Eye Bank takes great pride in our ability
to share the gift of sight with thousands of people every
year through corneal transplant, research and education. This
gift does not come without a price. We must remember that
for each grateful recipient of a transplanted cornea or medical
breakthrough achieved, there is a family who is struggling
with the loss of a loved one. These are the stories and remembrances
of their family members - and the faces of donation.
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The 2002 Faces of Donation
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Kenneth R. Talley
We all benefit when we take time to reflect on our blessings
of health and loved ones, our true treasures. I pray
you will take the time.
My dad died from cancer. He had it for two and a half
years. But when he died, I knew he went to heaven to
be with his grandpa.
I love my dad. He loved to hunt at my great grand ma's,
and he took us for tractor rides there because it used
to be a farm with animals, but now we just grow things
there. My Paw-Paw takes care of the garden.
My dad loved to fish too. He liked to fish in the pond
in our back yard. One time, I even caught a snapping
turtle, and my dad had to cut the line.
Dear Daddy, I love you very, very much. I want you to
come to my birthday party, but you are only going to
be in my spirit.
"My dad just can't be beat.
He helps me feel the warmth and heat.
Boy, i have the best seat,
Sitting upon my father's feet."
This poem reminds me of when I used to snuggle up with
my dad and watch army movies.
Thank you to all of you who serve at the North Carolina
Eye Bank for giving us the opportunity to "see"
some earthly benefit resulting from our loss.
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Carlos Huerta Taxtho
Mi hijito Carlos Huerta Taxtho, tu recuerdo vive con
nosotros todos los dias, y tu alla con neustro Dios
todopoderoso.
Te recordamos con todo corazon.
Que Dios te bendiga en el paraiso de Jesu Cristo.
Tu Papa, Mama, dos Hermanitos, Tias y Primos.
Amen
Words in memory - my son, Carlos Heurta Taxtho, your
memory lives with us every day, and you are with our
almighty God. We remember you with all our heart.
May God bless you in heaven. Amen.
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Gayle Wayne (G. W.) Teal
Born March 22, 1940, in Concord, North Carolina, Gayle
Wayne Teal was the youngest of four boys, one of whom
was his twin who died shortly after his birth. After
the death of their parents at a young age, G. W. was
raised by his oldest brother, James Howard Teal, and
his wife, Faye Allman Teal.
G. W. Graduated from James A. Gray High School in Winston-Salem
in 1958, and was a member of the Army Reserves for many
years. He was stationed in Jackson, SC during his basic
training. He married his high school sweetheart, Gloria
Maranville in 1959. They had three children - Sherri
Teal Carey, Michael Lane Teal, and Tracy Teal Cox. His
grandchildren are Brandon and Brian Carey, Casey and
Kelcie Teal.
G. W. worked for Reynolds Tobacco Company until 1964
when he joined the Winston-Salem Police Department.
He was very proud of his career serving the community.
He was a gun enthusiast and very proud of his status
of Expert Marksman, and his gunsmith abilities. He attained
the rank of Lieutenant, and retired from the police
force in 1988.
One of the accomplishments that he and his family were
most proud of was his desire to continue his education
while raising a family and working full time. He obtained
his Bachelor of Science degree in Political Science
from the University of NC at Charlotte, and his Masters
Degree from Appalachian State University.
After his retirement, G. W. was an instructor of Basic
Law Enforcement Training and Criminal Justice at Forsyth
Technical Community College. He also instructed through
the Stokes County Community College program.
We, his children, are all thankful for the valuable
lessons he taught us, and the wisdom he instilled in
us. We will especially cherish the last year, when we
all became so much closer.
Dad, you are deeply loved and greatly missed.
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Patrick Leon Teal
Patrick was a man of great honor and high principles.
He lived his live to serve others. Patrick served his
country in the US Army, and was employed as an Administrative
Medical Patient Support Clerk at the Bill Hefner VA
Medical Center in Salisbury for over twenty years. His
deep care and concern for his fellow veterans and small
children were superseded only by his awesome love for
God.
In March 2002, Patrick received two heart stint implants
to repair a 99% blockage, which nearly took his life.
This gave him precious time to spend with his grandsons.
Patrick had many talents. He was a whiz on the computer,
and, being a Private Investigator, he located missing
people. He was also a Notary Public, and tremendously
enjoyed reading books.
He had tons of friends, and was always there to help
in times of need. He was a best friend and mentor, and
best of all, he was a kind listener.
During 2002 Patrick received his lifetime member award
for the American Legion post 342, and the Disabled American
Veterans. He was a 32nd degree master mason and Worshipful
master of Cannon Memorial Masonic Lodge #626, Kannapolis
Scottish Rite of Freemasonry, Scottish Rite of Research
Society, a Noble of the Mystic Shrine of the Oasis Temple
in Charlotte, and Worthy Patron of the Order of the
Eastern Star #349.
His greatest aspiration at this time was to become a
clown through the Shriners, so he could entertain sick
children in the hospital. He had always wanted to be
a clown.
On June 12, 2002, just 7 months 3 days after our marriage,
Patrick was struck from behind while waiting to make
a left turn, and later died of internal injuries. He
was enroute to deliver flags for the Flag Day in his
hometown of Kannapolis, planning a celebration ceremony.
He never made it to the Flag Ceremony.
Patrick will live forever in our hearts and minds. He
made a tremendous impact on everyone whose life he touched.
I will love you forever, my dear husband.
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Thomas (Thom) Temples
Thom Temples was a loving husband, fabulous
father, and a terrific grandfather! Thom loved his life
and lived it to the fullest.
Even after his death, he continues to give through the
gift of sight, a choice that he made in becoming an
organ donor.
Thom's smile, laugh, hugs, kisses and the roar of his
Harley will be missed, but the memories that he gave
his family and friends will forever be cherished.
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Charles Oliver Thomason, Jr.
Charles was a husband, father, and grandfather.
He was a veteran of the US Navy, serving during the
Vietnam conflict. He received wounds during this time,
and was honorably discharged. His disability finally
lead to his being 100% disabled.
Charles always was a donor, and wanted someone else
to be able to be helped when he passed on, hoping to
give them a better life.
He is missed so very much by family and friends, and
it will be hard during the holidays, but knowing that
his eyes have helped someone is a comforting feeling.
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James Allen Thornton
Jamie was a kindhearted loving person, full
of human compassion, larger than life, loved surfing,
smiled like the sun, laughed like the stars, and exuded
a light that could be seen for miles.
Jamie's love for his mother, family, and friends was
without boundaries. He loved to love. In his short life
of 22 years, he left memories in our hearts that will
last a lifetime.
It was an honor to have him in our lives. Some people
come into our lives and stay in our hearts forever.
James Allen Thornton is one of those people. If Jamie
knew of the gift he has given to his recipients, his
heart would be swollen with pride and honor.
Jamie, we miss you, love. Watch over us, and keep us
safe. We'll see ya -
Green Grass and High Tides forever!
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Gail Tilley
My mother, Gail Tilley (Hicks) was always a kid at heart.
She was a kid when she gave birth to me at 17.
I have to say something she passed on to me is a love
of sports. She was an ardent fan of the LA Dodgers,
the Buffalo Bills, and her favorite NASCAR driver, Mark
Martin.
I can remember taking her to her first NFL game five
years ago. Her Bills were trouncing my beloved Panthers.
As the angry Panther fans quietly looked on, she celebrated
loudly as the Bills scored time and time again. Here
was this small feisty woman, in enemy territory, whooping
it up with no fear whatsoever.
Always one who gave of herself, she never turned down
anyone needing help, even those who turned their backs
on her. She had the biggest heart of anyone I have ever
known, and I hope she passed even just 1/10th of that
to me.
She was a doting grandmother to my wife's two children,
as well as our child together. She was the happiest
pitching baseball with my nine-year-old stepson and
playwith her nineteen-month-old grandson.
Those simple pleasures summed up the spirit of my mother.
Her last act of love and selflessness was being an oran
donor, giving the gift of life to at least eight people.
I am sure she would be so happy to be able to give of
herself, once again.
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Elizabeth Ann Vallandingham
Ann loved life. She fought on a daily basis with a
lung problem for thirty years.
She had a double lung transplant March 3, 1992, and
lived daily with pain, but no one could tell. She cared
about family and friends more than her own problems.
Always smiling and happy on the outside - anyone who
knew her, loved her.
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Jonathon Van Horn
Jonathon
was killed in a head on collision with a drunk driver
January 26, 2002, and we would request that all memorials
of any type dedicated to Jon contain this information,
with the plea to please don't Drink and Drive.
Although mainly self taught, Jon played the guitar,
trumpet, harmonica, and cello, but he was a drummer
first and foremost. He got his first drum set for Christmas
when he was three years old, and never stopped playing
from that day on. Jon was also a talented poet and writer,
and wrote most of the songs his band played. He had
taken classes in Graphic Arts, and at the time of his
death was considering going to college for an Arts degree.
Everywhere - by Brenda Van Horn
Everywhere I turn there are tall boys
with blond hair,
wearing tattoos and baseball caps.
Everywhere I turn there are ponytails and skinny girls,
like the one you brought home to meet me.
Everywhere I turn is the sweet promise of youth,
full of hope and joy, the promise of a future.
Everywhere I turn I see everyone but you -
Yet everywhere I turn, you are all I see.
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Ted W. Van Horn
We love him very much. He loved his grandchildren, Maddison
and Gabriel. He was a very caring man.
Thank you so much for remembering him. |
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James Everett Wallace
James Everett Wallace (Jamie) died just ten days after
celebrating his nineteenth birthday. His life was brief;
however, it filled the hearts of all who knew him with
enough fond memories to last throughout their own lifetimes.
Jamie was the eldest of three children. He was best friends
with his sister, Sarah, and his youngest sister, Hope,
never doubted his protectiveness over her. The children
were close, and enjoyed many happy times together. The
proudest day of James' life was May 29, 2002, when his
own son, Joshua Dillon Wallace, was born.
James was a fun loving young man. Although he was a severe
asthmatic, he lived his life without fear or limitation.
He enjoyed fishing with his Grandpa, 4-wheeler riding
with his friends, and swimming. On his eighteenth birthday,
he was smiling as he rode the mechanical bull at the County
Fair. His witty sense of humor, giving nature, and genuine
sweetness are what made him so personable.
James' giving nature remains evident, even through death,
by his unselfish decision to be an eye donor. He is dearly
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Martha Walters
Her eyes were a world of joy to see.
Now they are seeing the joy of the world through someone
else.
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Barry Alan Warren
Barry Warren was born and grew up in Caldwell County,
NC. He was a beloved son, brother, husband, and father
of two boys. Loving and looking after his family was what
he lived for. They were his top priority.
He was a good friend who rarely met a stranger. Barry
was also a dedicated public servant. He volunteered
to serve his country in Vietnam, and returned home to
pursue a life in public service as Planning Director
for Caldwell County, and then Cumberland County, for
almost thirty years combined. He excelled in many public,
professional and civic arenas, but remained down to
earth. In his own words, he was "just a country
Mama's boy."
Barry was a devoted Christian and served his church
for many years as deacon, Sunday School teacher, and
on numerous committees. Because of his walk with God,
Barry understood, and tried to share with others, the
brevity of life on this earth and the importance of
knowing Christ personally.
Barry loved life, and enjoyed it to the fullest. We
will remember his laughter, his big bear hugs, practical
jokes, constant strength and encouragement, his love
of fishing golfing, and riding his Harley.
His boundless love for his family was recognized by
everyone who knew him. His passing has left an inmeasurable
hole in our family that will not be filled. Because
he understood that life is a gift from God, Barry was
compelled to share that gift, even in his death. Because
of his desire to share this gift with others, there
are recipients who are enjoying improved quality of
life today.
We remember him and swell with pride. Barry was a hero
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Warren
Norwood was a loving, fun and caring man. He
loved the Lord and his family and friends. He was not
ashamed to praise Jesus Christ for what He had done
in our lives.
Norwood loved children. He did not have any biological
children, but he loved mine as if they were his own,
and they loved him as their father.
He loved playing practical jokes on friends and family.
We never knew what to expect.
Deer hunting and fishing were passions of his. He could
tell you how many days there were before the season
started, or how many were left in the season.
We loved Norwood very much. He is with Jesus, that we
know, but we miss him with all our hearts.
Norwood and I discussed being donors, and it was what
we both wanted. I know he is happy to know that two
people are enjoying sight from his gift.
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Fletcher Washburn
I know Fletcher would be delighted that he was able
to give the gift of sight to two people. He was bedridden
for five years before his death.
He was a wonderful and loving husband of forty three
years, and father of two sons.
He gave of his time and money to people that needed
help.
He was not only my husband, but my best friend.
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Barbara Ann Webb
On June 13, 2002, we lost my mother, Barbara
Ann Webb. It was her wish that any organ that could
be donated, be donated, so that someone else would have
the chance to live, or improve their life. This shows
what a generous and loving person she was.
Barbara was a wonderful, supportive person. Family was
very important to her. Her greatest joy in life was
her two grandchildren. She was the best grandmother
in the world. No one could talk to her for more than
a minute without hearing about the grand kids. She thought
they could do not wrong.
Those lucky enough to know her, always knew that she
would be there for them through thick and thin. She
is greatly missed by all, but even in her absence, we
still feel her love.
Knowing that she was able to give someone else the gift
of sight is something her family is very proud of.
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Shelly Elizabeth Webb
Shelly was a senior in high school, looking
forward to college. She loved clothes and fashion, and
had plans to study and work in this field. Her favorite
things were music and her friends. Her spare time was
spent going to concerts, listening to bands, playing
CD's and spending time with her friends.
Shelly was a sweet and beautiful girl and was known
for her smile. Her beauty did not make her vain. She
was friends to all, and would go out of her way to try
and help someone who was feeling down.
She lost her life in an accident on the way to school,
but she remains alive in our hearts and memories.
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Lora Weikle
Lora Weikle will not be forgotten. She was an
accomplished poet and a lover of all living things. Her
courage and faith was an inspiration to many.
Lora died on April 24, 2002. She was thirty-eight years
old. She spent her last year in a nursing home where she
was a blessing to all.
Diabetes had taken much from her, but God replaced it
with an undying spirit and inner peace.
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Matthew Alexander
Wentz
Matthew was a beautiful baby. He had light
brown hair, blue eyes, a round full face, and a perfect
nose. His right eye was two shades lighter than his
left eye. When Matthew was six months old he was diagnosed
with cortical blindness. His eyes were fine, but his
brain didn't process the information.
I never doubted that Matthew could see. It was what
he could see that was a mystery. He liked to watch cartoons,
perhaps the movements or the colors were getting through,
but Matthew didn't really "look" at anything.
Except for the very rare occasions when I would catch
his eye, and knew that he was seeing me. Really seeing
me. And that memory I will hold forever.
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Daniel Eric Wieselquist
We are thankful for the thirty three years that we
had Dan, a pure, tender, loving person, that we know
now rests in the bosom of the Lord.
We miss you Dan, but we know you now rejoice in the
kingdom of heaven.
Your loving family
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Dennis Wayne Williams
As I write this, it has been a few short weeks since
my husband, Dennis Williams, went to be with Jesus.
I am deeply saddened by his passing.
He was a wonderful husband to me, and a loving father
to our children, Dwaine and Daniel. When I think of
Dennis, I see smiling eyes, loving arms, a heart of
gold.
Dennis always told our boys they could do anything if
they tried. When Dwaine got his scholarships, Dennis
was beaming. When the boys finished school, he told
them "you made it - I knew you could." He
helped both boys get their first jobs at the store where
he managed. He taught our kids and those who worked
for him to be responsible adults.
Dennis loved to take us on camping and fishing trips.
He did all those things that daddy's do with their families.
When Dennis got the call from God to preach, he beamed
with an angelic glow. He had a ministry for cancer patients
and kids. He had a special way with young people and
would tell me, "you never know when you're entertaining
angels."
Dennis has always been my best friend and loyal companion.
No matter what we've had to face throughout our twenty
eight year marriage, we faced it together.
He is my buddy, the love of my life. I know I will be
with him again, someday, in God's glorious Kingdom.
In loving memory...
Dennis was my youngest son, and was a son any mother
would have been proud of. He had a heart of gold. If
he had only one dollar and you needed it, it was yours.
He was a good friend to everyone. We miss him very much,
but I know he is happy in heaven.
With loving thoughts and memories...
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Howard Leroy Williams
Howard was a husband, the father of Katie and
Marc, and grandfather of Christina, Joshua, Ben and
Megan.
He was a real estate appraiser, and instructor. A sunday
School teacher. A gardner. And a friend who brought
love, joy, caring and friendship to all he met.
One of Howard's greatest joys was working in his garden
and yard, seeing the results of his labors, and sharing
the bounty with friends and neighbors.
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Sharon Elizabeth Patterson Williamson
Sharon was a sensitive, happy, loving, giving,
trusting, and wonderful friend to all. She loved her
family unconditionally, and this was proven over and
over again in many ways, even when she lay critically
ill with multiple sclerosis.
Her two children, Leecia and Jason, grew up knowing
much love from their Mom. While they were in school,
she did the usual things, running the car pool, the
scout things, church, home-school, friend things, and
was always welcoming friends into their home.
She was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis when both
children were still quiteyoung, but fared rather well
for 12-15 years, managing all those mom "things"
for them both.
About the time her son was graduating from high school
and her daughter was planning a wedding, Sharon suffered
a set back and had to be hospitalized for several weeks.
In the end, Sharon was confined to a nursing facility.
Such was her impact on others that a few days prior
to her death, over 100 residents and employees (current
and former) of the facility came into her room to pray
for her.
It is a joy to know that two others can now see because
of our Sharon. Her maternal grandfather was blind, and
her mother's eyesight is not good at all, so her whole
family knows the importance of organ donation, so that
a part of us can live on, and so that others may be
spared lives of pain and loss.
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John Palmer Williamson
John was three weeks shy of his twentieth birthday
when he tragically died in an automobile accident on
his way home.
A freshman at UNC-Wilmington, John is survived by an
identical twin brother, Ben, an older sister, Bridger,
and his parents, Rick and Beth Williamson.
John blessed his family and many friends with his humor
and affection, always standing up for what he believed
to be right.
He loved his truck, the outdoors (he loved hunting and
fishing), animals, country music and good times with
his family and friends.
He is greatly missed.
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Jimmy Leon Wright
Jimmy came from a big family, and was the youngest
of nine children. We have five children and ten grandchildren.
Jimmy was a brave, compassionate and patient man who
had a passion for life. He was a very dependable, loving
husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend.
He would help people in any way that he could.
Jimmy drove a tractor trailer for twenty four years.
He loved to keep his vehicles clean, and to do the yard
work.
We love and miss him very much.
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Robert J. Wyke
When our first child was born, Robert called everyone
he knew at 3:00 a.m. He never thought of the time.
When we had a stillborn child, his deep sadness and
incredible strength guided the family through it.
Robert stuck by his principles, regardless of who he
was dealing with.
He took care of our elderly neighbors' garden, and helped
with whatever they needed, and would visit and cheer
up friends and family, in illness and in need.
Robert unselfishly offered a helping hand, and if he
saw a job that needed to be done, he did it.
He was almost always smiling and giving hugs - he guided
our children with a firm, gentle hand.
He was adored by his grandchildren, even though they
had to play by the rules.
Robert was our "rock" and our family misses
him terribly.
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Albert (Eddie) Douglas
Young
I'm Free
Be not burdened with time of sorrow.
I wish for you the sunshine of tomorrow,
My life's been full; I've savored much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch
Perhaps my time seems all too brief,
Don't spend your life with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and share with me,
God wanted you to know, He set me FREE.
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