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The North Carolina Eye Bank takes great pride in our ability
to share the gift of sight with thousands of people every
year through corneal transplant, research and education. This
gift does not come without a price. We must remember that
for each grateful recipient of a transplanted cornea or medical
breakthrough achieved, there is a family who is struggling
with the loss of a loved one. These are the stories and remembrances
of their family members - and the faces of donation.
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The 2002 Faces of Donation |

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Victoria (Vickie) Mace
Vickie was a dedicated mother, wife, daughter, and church
member.
Vickie always had a smile and a word of encouragement
for anyone she met.
Even in her untimely death, she was thinking of others,
through her wish of being an organ donor.
She will truly be missed by friends and family alike.
Although Vickie is gone, her life and character will
continue on in her son, Dakota.
We will never forget "Our Angel", and we will
always love her.
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Andree Martin
Andree Paule Marie Martin died on Friday, January 25,
2002, in Wilmington, North Carolina. She was born in
Miliana, Algeria, North Africa on February 28, 1928,
the daughter of Andree Guillemin and Jeanne Remond Guillemin.
She is survived by her husband, Louis L. Martin, of
Hampstead; her son, Paul Martin of Raleigh; her daughter,
Jeanne Marie Martin and husband, Kenneth Howell, of
Chapel Hill, North Carolina; a grandson, Phillip Martin
of Raleigh. In France, her brother, Jean Guillemin and
his family; her uncle, Marcel Remond in Nice; her niece,
Danielle Lenoir and family in Paris also survive her.
Andree was a member of Topsail Presbyterian Church
since 1977, and served as a deacon for three years.
She was very active in many church functions, including
being a Women's Circle leader, and was instrumental
in starting a memorial garden for the church.
She will be remembered for her love and expertise in
cooking, as well as her love and skill in gardening.
Her memory will be treasured by her many friends and
relatives in the United States and France.
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Ruth Martin
Ruthie was our oldest sister and we miss her so much.
She was so full of life and always took the world by
its tail. She taught us that sometimes you have to fight
to live, and she fought a hard fight. We admired her
strength to go after her dreams.
There's a yard full of flowers, trees and shrubs. She
helped plant them all, and each day she is seen in them.
We thank God he blessed us with her for a time.
Her sisters and brothers
My daughter was a kind, loving, compassionate person.
She loved life and never met a stranger. She was a hard,
devoted worker. I miss her so very much.
Her mother, Ruth
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Luther James (Jim)
Matthews
Jim loved life. He was a very intelligent person.
He was someone you could talk to, and you knew he was
hearing each word. He loved gardening, golf, and fishing.
Jim had the most beautiful blue eyes I have ever seen.
He planned on being a donor long before I even thought
of being one.
Because of his illness, only his eyes could be used.
It is such a comforting thought to know a part of Jim
still lives on through the eyes of the two recipients.
His loving wife
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Brian Mayronne
Brian was a beloved son and brother. Only fourteen
months younger than his sister, and a big brother to
two younger brothers. He loved to go fishing more than
anything in the world. We love him, and miss him so.
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Wilbur McGee
Daddy said "my eyes are not very good,
but if they can help a blind person see, I want them
to be used."
He enjoyed life and brought joy to all around him. He
had a great sense of humor, and his laugh was contagious.
You simply could not stay in a bad mood around Daddy.
His positive outlook lifted many a downtrodden spirit.
Daddy was a thoughtful fellow who helped family, friends
and neighbors in need, but he worked behind the scenes,
not needing to be glorified for his outreach.
To know him was to love him.
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John Cameron McInnis
John was born in Fayetteville, NC, was married to
Shirley for forty years, the father of two daughters
and one son, grandfather of four, plus another grandchild
born eight months following his death, and named Cameron,
after his grandfather.
John was a retired County Emergency Management Coordinator.
He also served as a volunteer fire chief, and was honored
by city and county fire departments at the family visitation
and funeral.
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Charles McIntyre
Charlie's eyes took in darkness - a father's
reasonless hand raised in anger, a mother drowning in
children and left to tend the next one's cries, a table
with too little, twelve year old fingers bloodied with
a man's labor.
Charlie's eyes projected light - twenty smokes to the
shivering man who requested just one, light in the unknown
single mother's apartment, his signature guaranteed
because his wife asked, light on kittens and puppies
whose abandoned cries pierced the night and found their
home in his, joyous light of success shared with employees.
His eyes glowed thanks for the smallest kindness. And
our eyes wept as we gave his gift of light, when far
too soon he was gone.
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Lori Sue McLamb
Suzy is shown here at one of the happiest times of
her life, holding our new grandsons, Michael and Xavier
in May of 2000.
I was honored to have twelve wonderful years with this
woman.
I love you, and will always miss you.
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Brenda Meacham
Brenda was an encourager. She was compassionate and
loyal, a woman of monumental strength. A person who
loved to garden. A person who loved nature, her animals,
and family.
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Kayla Nicole Medlin
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Max Medlin
God took Max home on 8/19/02 after a long, courageous
fight with throat cancer. He was a man who loved his wife
and family deeply, and found great joy in his grandchildren.
He worked very hard all his life, and was admired and
respected by business associates for his high integrity
and zeal for life.
He showed the same determination to conquer cancer as
he did throughout his adult life in all his ventures.
He prepared for his demise by completing lists of things
he wanted done, and marked them off one by one.
Max worked when physically he should not have, and complained
very little when he was in great pain.
His last gift to this world was his eyes, and we know
whoever has them is truly a remarkable person, just as
he was. He continues to live in our hearts, and we know
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Sam Miller
As a child, Sam was a typical happy, energetic young
person. He loved riding BMX bicycles and building jumping
ramps with his friends. He liked skate boards, remote
control cars, and dirt bikes. He enjoyed sports - particularly
soccer and basketball. He loved collecting baseball
and basketball cards - especially Michael Jordan cards.
When Sam became older, he liked electronics, fishing,
and preferred driving a truck, rather than a car. He
liked being outdoors, especially after dark, when the
stars were out and the weather was cooler. He loved
riding a motorcycle and talking to other motorcycle
enthusiasts. He successfully rode his motorcycle from
North Carolina to Texas in April of 2002, meeting many
interesting people on the journey.
Sam was a thoughtful son, brother, and grandson. We
miss his gentle and wonderful sense of humor. He filled
our lives with happiness and he made us laugh all the
time. We had great respect for him, and we thought of
him as a very good friend. We were truly blessed to
have him in our family and share his life for 23 years.
Our lives were enriched by knowing him, and it is our
hope that at least two other people experience a fuller,
more beautiful life because of his donation of his eyes.
We appreciate the opportunity to share the memories
of a life that accidentally ended so quickly. He was
very important to us. This tribute is submitted with
sad hearts and fond memories.
Sam's parents, brother, sister, and grandparents.
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Brent
L. Mitchell
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Heaven gained an angel
The stubborn crazy type,
Who was fun to be around
And caused trouble day or night!
Heaven gained an angel
That had dreams to do much,
To buy a boat, live at the beach,
And race Dale Earnhardt a bunch.
Heaven gained an angel
A loveable kind of guy,
Who would make up things to make you laugh,
Even in the weirdest kind of times.
He gained an angel
Who ate his lopydope fried!
He cooked better than Emerial Agasi,
And his spinach caserole was prized.
Heaven gained an angel
Who was the smartest man on Earth,
There wasn't much he didn't know,
And if there was he made it up!
Our family gained a Guardian Angel,
To look over the rest of our days,
DAD, WE WILL MISS YOU DEEPLY,
And we will always remember your fun-loving ways.
I love you Daddy
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"MY DAD"
Berry Berry Sweet
Really Funny
Enthusiastic
Nice
Trustworthy
Daddy
Awesome
Daddy is cool
Dandy
Ya gotta love em'
I love you Daddy
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Ray Moffett
Ray was a very loving husband, father, and grandfather.
He always tried to set a Christian example for his family.
He was very proud of his son and daughter for the fine
Christian parents they have become, and for the four
grandchildren they gave him.
Ray always tried to see the best in people, and be fair
and honest with everyone.
"I love you" were the first words he said
to me each morning, and the last he would say to me
at night. Those were also the last words he spoke to
me before his death.
I feel I was very blessed to have him as my best friend
and husband.
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Danny Monroe
It is difficult to write a few memories about my brother,
because my mind is full of special events from his childhood
through his adult life. Danny was so full of life and
he loved life to the fullest. He was a wonderful son,
brother, father, grandfather, uncle and friend to many
people. When Danny worked out of town, he would call
our mother and check in with us. When mother answered
the phone, he would say "this is your baby boy,
mama." We know our mother would give anything to
hear those words again. Danny was a very tender hearted
man and it didn't take much to make him cry, even though
he looked like a very strong independent man. Danny
never had anything bad to say about anyone, and he always
looked for the good in all people. This trait is evident
in the personalities of his two sons, because they are
like their dad in the way they treat and respect others.
Danny was very proud of his sons and his grandchild,
Madilyn.
Danny loved all types of sports and was a die hard Clemson
Fan. GO TIGERS. He enjoyed having friends over to watch
the games on television. All the nieces and nephews
loved when uncle Danny was around, because he would
play with them just like another kid. Danny was born
between two sisters, and he could really give us a hard
time when we were children. But we will always cherish
those days of playing baseball, riding our bikes, hide
and seek with neighborhood kids, going to the pool,
and even a little fight or two. But after we grew up,
he was always there for us. Danny never called or said
good bye without saying "I love you, sis"
and he could give the best hugs of any man we know.
Danny was a spiritual man that enjoyed going to church
to worship our Heavenly Father. We talked often about
how blessed our family has been through the years. At
the time when we were asked to donate Danny's corneas,
it seemed to be a difficult decision. But now we are
so pleased that through this donation, two people were
able to regain their sight. We know Danny would have
wanted us to do this, and it has made his death easier
to bear for the entire family. At the moment we received
the letter of the successful transplants, we were overcome
with emotion and joy. We thank God for the blessing
we received and the blessings the recipients received
through our love for Danny. Our love for Danny will
always exist, and our memories will remain fresh in
our minds until the day we are reunited with him in
heaven.
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Lillie Ree Morton
This is Lilly Ree, as she was known by her family,
friends, and classmates, growing up in Greenville, South
Carolina.
This is Ree, as she wanted to be called as she became
the mature lady who was a very beautiful person inside
as well as outside.
She was a wonderful and loving wife, mother, and grandmother,
as well as a good and true friend.
The light, bright, sparkling smile that she had was
shared by everyone she saw, or came in contact with.
May that same smile be present and carried forward with
her offer of sight to those who were receivers of this
precious gift.
From her loving husband and family
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Bobbie
Myers
Bobbie Myers lived only 34 years on this earth. She had
a zest for life and lived every day to its fullest. She
was a daughter, sister, mother, and friend. She was not
only a mother to her two daughters, but also their best
friend. She was soon to be a grandmother, but never got
the opportunity to see her grandchildren.
People of all ages were attracted to her, especially children
and older people. Every one who met her, even for the
first time, felt a closeness and love for her. She was
the life of the party and fun to be around. Making a difference
in people's lives around her was just one of her many
special gifts. If you touched her heart, there was nothing
she wouldn't do for you.
Bobbie owned and operated an American Indian craft shop.
She was very talented. She made American Indian crafts.
She was very imaginative, and good at her work. She was
proud of her Indian heritage.
She loved her work and loved to go to Pow Wows. She loved
to do face painting for children at the Pow Wows. She
was a gourmet cook, and loved preparing food for family
gatherings.
Bobbie was very versatile, had a strong will, and could
accomplish anything she set her mind to. Her family and
friends dearly miss her. We are glad that her corneas
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