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The North Carolina Eye Bank takes great pride in our ability
to share the gift of sight with thousands of people every
year through corneal transplant, research and education. This
gift does not come without a price. We must remember that
for each grateful recipient of a transplanted cornea or medical
breakthrough achieved, there is a family who is struggling
with the loss of a loved one. These are the stories and remembrances
of their family members - and the faces of donation.
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The 2002 Faces of Donation
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Samuel James (Sam) Blackburn
Sam was born in Los Angeles, California, in 1959. He was
the youngest of four children (a brother and two sisters).
He was the father of three boys.
Sam was a wonderful and loving person, full of live,
and full of compassion for his fellow man, especially
the less fortunate. All in all, a great person that
will be missed dearly.
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Carol Ann Kirby Bohler
Carol Ann touched the lives of not only her family,
but the lives of everyone she met. She loved life and
passed that love on to everyone she came into contact
with. Those who knew her are better people because of
her. Carol Ann, you are, and always will be, loved and
missed.
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Annie Rebecca Wells Boone
Dear Mama
We love you with all our heart
You we've cherished right from the start
We've had our ups and downs
Even so, we were so thankful you were around
Know you have gone to a better place
The tears, they replace the smiles on our face.
God has smiled and laid your soul to rest
God makes no mistakes, and we know He knows best
We love you, Mama, with all our hearts
We have loved you unconditionally, right from the start
We'll miss you lots, this we know
But God has you now, and we must let go
A mother's love we'll always know
That mother's love helped us to grow
Into the persons we are today.
Thank you, mama, for your loving way.
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James William Bowen, Jr.
James William Bowen, Jr., was born October 1, 1953,
and died July 31, 2002. He was known as Jimbo to family
and friends. A large man at almost 6 feet 6 inches,
and around 375 pounds, he was often stopped by strangers
who inquired about which pro football team he played
for. In our local paper, a tribute to him referred to
him as a "gentle giant."
While he was physically a giant of a man, he also had
the heart of a giant. He was a man who was never ashamed
to shed tears of joy or sorrow.
Jimbo loved family, friends, and life. He lived life
to the fullest. He never met a stranger, or talked with
someone he didn't share a laugh with. He had a wonderful
sense of humor and sharp wit.
He wanted to be an organ donor so that if his life was
over, others could still live. We miss him terribly,
but are thankful that someone is able to see, thanks
to him. It is our prayer that those who now see because
of his gift can view life with the same joy he did.
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Bradley Boyd
Brad turned 16 on Saturday, March 2, 2002. Two weeks
later on Saturday, March 16, 2002, he was killed, as
a passenger in a car accident. Brad had decided to be
a donor when he got his driver's permit in January 2002.
He was our only son - the middle child - and has two
sisters, one older and one younger. We all loved (and
love) him very much.
Brad was truly liked and loved by many students and
teachers at his school, West Carteret High School. He
had many friends. He was the kind of person that stood
out in a crowd because of his size and personality.
At six foot four inches and 220 pounds, he usually wasn't
hard to spot!
He had a promising future ahead of him in sports. His
love was football! All of his coaches, beginning in
middle school, always praised him for his hard work,
dedication, and never quit attitude. Just an all-around
great guy.
Even though his death was a tragic one, Brad was very
thoughtful and would have wanted to help someone.
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Peggy Brady
Mother's Eyes
The greatest gift that we could give to anyone are my
mother's eyes. Her eyes watched my grandparents go from
young to elderly, and then to God.
Her eyes watched her husband propose, then watched him
say the words that, under God, would keep them wed for
life.
Her eyes watched her children grow from infant to adult,
and everything in between.
Her eyes saw graduations, halloween costumes, and construction
paper Mothers Day cards.
I only hope the recipients of my mother's eyes get to
see through the same veil of love through which she
saw our family. Those eyes are truly "mother's
eyes."
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Thomas Kay
Buchanan, III
Thomas Kay Buchanan, III was born in Charlotte, N.C. on
September 25, 1981. He died due to an automobile accident
in Greensboro, N.C. on April 4, 2002.
Thomas graduated from Myers park High School in 2000.
He attended the Flight Safety International Academy in
Vero Beach, Fla., where he received his Commerical Pilot
License, Instrument and Multi-Engine Ratings.
Thomas had a special love for aviation throughout his
life. That love took him from model airplances as a young
boy, to radio controlled planes, to soaring gliders, and
on to single and multi-engine aircraft as a young man.
He always met and exceeded his goals in his aviation career.
He not only loved aviation, he shared it with others.
It may have been sharing the joy of flight or airplanes
with a young boy or girl at the airport, a group of children
at a birthday party anxious for a ride, or sharing his
knowledge with an old friend or a new one.
Thomas has an even deeper love for his Lord and Savior,
Jesus Christ. All who know him saw the love and joy he
derived from his relationship with Christ. Whenever he
was with family, friends, co-workers, or associates, he
brought the joy of living and laughter.
Fellowship with those he loved and serving their needs
characterized every part of his life. Bringing joy to
others was truly a gift that he had, and exercised well.
Thomas' time here was truly a celebration of life. And
now, as Thomas brought joy and life to those around him,
he is experiencing life eternal as well as joy unspeakable
and full of glory in the presence of the Lord!
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Carol Ann Bunn
Carol Ann Bunn was a vivacious young woman of strong
faith, who loved life, and was a light and joy to all
that knew her.
A 1997 double lung recipient herself, Carol Ann realized
first hand what an impact and change organ donation
could make in a person's life. Carol Ann worked tirelessly
in speaking on behalf of organ donation.
Her physical health prevented her donating her internal
organs, but she gave the gift of sight by donating her
eyes. She gave her sight to one that perhaps had never
seen the beauty of God's creation, a smiling face, or
love in the eyes of others.
Her inspiration and life have motivated others to continue
her efforts and fulfill her dreams.
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J. Howard Bunn, Jr.
Jackson Howard Bunn, Jr., died July 29, 2002, at North
Carolina Memorial Hospital, Chapel Hill, from complications
related to diabetes.
Howard was a nationally recognized expert in issues
related to workers' compensation. After practicing law
for seven years in Charlotte, he was appointed in 1970
by Gov. Robert Scott to serve as Chairman of the North
Carolina Industrial Commission. In September 1993, he
returned to North Carolina when he was again appointed
as Chairman of the NC Industrial Commission, this time
by Gov. Jim Hunt, and where he served until his retirement
in 1999.
Howard and Kay Seawell were married on July 20th, just
days before his death. His dream of companionship for
his latter years was cut short, but memories of him
will last for years.
For those who knew Howard Bunn, they will remember a
warm gentleman, who measured people by their very being.
He respected people from all walks of life, and if he
was your friend, you will miss his solid and loyal friendship.
As Danny Kaye said, "life is a big canvas....you
should throw all the paint on it you can.
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Gary Bunton
Gary was my high school sweetheart, and my husband
for thirty four years. He was also my very best friend.
He made life fun. He made everyone laugh, and have a
good time. Gary was the life of every party.
He was very intelligent and witty. You could not talk
about a subject that he did not know something about.
He used to say that he knew a lot of useless information.
He would also tell his children that he knew everything
they needed to know.
Gary was the best dad, and was so proud of his children.
He also played with them, and put them first. He tried
to teach them right from wrong, and instill values.
As they grew older, he also wanted to be a part of their
lives, and was interested in whatever they were interested
in.
He was a deacon and part time Sunday School teacher.
He was a friend to all his coworkers.
It would be nice to be able to tell you about just one
special day with Gary, but every day spent with him
was special. He used to tell people that not everyone
is lucky enough to find the love of their live at such
a young age.
He truly made life fun!
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Dr. James Gillium Burke
Dr. Gil Burke was one of a kind. He worked hard and
was driven by his love of orthopedic surgery. His patients
loved him, and he brightened his coworkers day. He could
make anyone laugh, and was always looking for a way
to make you smile.
He loved our family, and took us to Disney World for
each of our tenth birthdays. He began video taping key
events in our lives, and never missed an opportunity
to tape his family. These will serve to refresh our
memories of his love for us in the coming years.
Gil was a christian and was quite involved in his church.
He ministered to our family, his patients, coworkers,
and anyone with whom he came into contact. His dedication
to philanthropy was reflective of his christian beliefs
and lives on, after his passing.
We miss him dearly, and as we move onto the next stages
of our lives (getting married, having children, etc.)
we will miss him even more. As a father, he never had
to verbalize the values he wished to instill within
his three daughters. He lived them.
Although his earthly journey is complete, part of him
lives in our souls for eternity.
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| Eric Reynolds Burns
October 20, 2000 - November 7, 2002
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Carol Burton
Carol was a person who definitely knew what she liked,
but she liked them under certain conditions.
She loved roses, but they had better be pink. Carol loved
to go to the beach and loved to ride in boats, but did
not like the sun because it burned her skin. She did not
like the wind because it messed her hair, and she did
not like the sand because it stuck to her skin and clothes.
Solve these little problems, and she was ready to go whenever
you were.
Carol raised five children of her own, plus two more.
She did not hesitate to let them know when they were misbehaving,
and had a tongue like a double-edged sword.
But, she sent Christmas cards, and Birthday cards, and
attended grandchildren's graduations.
She drove hundreds of miles to visit them on holidays,
and never really told them how bad she felt.
She sent money to help them through tough spots, and never
told them she had to borrow it.
She prayed they will bond together to help each other
now, and not be too quick with the double-edged sword.
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| L. Terry Byerly
Terry was a wonderful husband,
father, grandfather, and my very best friend. One of
our fondest memories is that he believed if God forgave
him, then he, Terry, should forgive others.
He truly had an outgoing and loving personality. He
loved to tell jokes, and laugh with others. Terry loved
people, and was always wonderful for listening to his
family, never being critical, and would tell us "I
love you."
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Elizabeth Caddell
Elizabeth began bringing joy into the lives of many
on June 10, 1958. From childhood and beyond, her enthusiasm,
excitement and fun-loving personality compelled her
to reach out and embrace life. Her laughter was contagious...her
friends were many.
Elizabeth was always there to offer a helping hand in
caring for a sick loved one, neighbor, or friend. Her
gift of caring for people, along with her love and compassion,
was a comfort to many. We leaned on her...heeded her...loved
her. Nieces and nephews were born. She was there, and
loved them as her own. They loved "Biddie"
with a special love because she was a "Special
Mother" to them...a gift from God.
Elizabeth's acceptance of her "lot in life,"
allowed by God, was shown by her silence in suffering.
Her years of battling diabetes...from a teenager to
the 43 precious years she lived...weakened her body,
but not her spirit. Her compassion for others was shown
throughout her short life, by the things she did for
those around her. We love you, Elizabeth! We'll see
you soon!
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Terry Eugene Cantrell
Lee loved his children and family. He was the focal
point for all of us, and was there when we needed advice
and support.
His daughter, Latoya, was Daddy's girl, and Dillion
was Daddy's boy. He was so very proud of his children.
We all loved him so much, and the pain and loss is so
deep and hard.
He will always be a big part of our lives, and will
be loved forever.
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Junior Carpenter
I remember...the first time Junior (Skip) held my hand
on that first date. Those clear blue eyes looked deep
into mine, capturing my heart. His quiet strength and
warm smiles carried us through 42 wonderful years together.
I remember...family trips to the mountains of West Virginia...bike
riding down country roads...sitting in the swing in
the front yard watching the hummingbirds in the mimosa
tree...eating popsicles on hot summer afternoons...Sunday
mornings with our friends at the old country church,
and having lunch afterwards at our favorite restaurant
(the cook's day off)...winter evenings with the gas
logs burning brightly while Junior read one of his favorite
novels by Louis L'Amour, or perhaps crocheting or quilting.
Occasionally he would look over towards me and say,
"Marphie, you're beautiful," and I'd say,
"thank you, you're handsome."
And the last words at night..."I love you."
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Virgie Carter
Mrs. Carter was born in Gatesville, N.C., and lived
in that area almost all of her life. She and Mr. Carter
raised five children on a small farm with very few modern
conveniences.
She loved gardening and was a good seamstress. She was
a devout Christian, and loved her church family. In
her later years, she got great joy from the company
of her family, especially the grandchildren and great
grandchildren. She lived to see the birth of a great
great granddaughter.
She was able to celebrate her 100th birthday October
27, 2001, with many friends and family.
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Patricia Cash
Pat Cash - she was a mother to many, but she gave birth
to only two. Grandmother of Aubrey and Logan Pollock.
Friend for a life time. What she wanted most was to watch
her grand kids grow, and have a hand in making their childhood
the best it could be.
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Glen Cecchini
Glen was forty eight years old when he was killed in a
car accident on July 25, 2002. He was married for twenty
seven years to Phyllis, and had three children, Heather
24, Andy 17, and Mary Brooke 12. He lived in Nashville,
NC.
Glen was an electrical apprentice in the power production
shop in the 916th Civil Engineering Squadron. He was so
very proud to be a part of the Air Force Reservist Squadron.
He was also employed as an electrician in Gold Rock, NC.
He loved to cook dinner for his family and others. His
specialty was lasagna. He played tennis twice a week on
an adult team, and loved to workout in the gym.
Glen had the special ability to make his family and others
laugh. He made his presence known wherever he was. At
home, he rarely sat down - always cooking, fixing things,
or washing his car.
He would be very glad to know that because of him someone
is able to see again. Glen will be truly missed by all
that knew him.
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Leslie Stone Chrisemer
Mother of Michael William Stone, and daughter of Richard
and Janine Sumner Stone
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David Christian
To Remember Me, by Robert N. Test
The day will come when my body will lie upon a white
sheet neatly tucked under four corners of a mattress
located in a hospital busily occupied with the living
and the dying. At a certain moment a doctor will determine
that my brain has ceased to function and that, for all
intents and purposes, my life has stopped. When that
happens, do not attempt to instill artificial life into
my body by the use of a machine. And don't call this
my deathbed. Let it be called the Bed of Life, and let
my body be taken from it to help others lead fuller
lives.
Give my sight to the man who has never seen a sunrise,
a baby's face or love in the eyes of a woman. Give my
heart to a person whose own heart has caused nothing
but endless days of pain. Give my blood to a teenage
who was pulled from the wreckage of his car, so that
he might live to see his grandchildren play. Give my
kidneys to one who depends on a machine to exist from
week to week.
Take my bones, every muscle, every fiber and nerve in
my body, and find a way to make a crippled child walk.
Explore every corner of my brain. Take my cells, if
necessary, and let them grow so that, someday, a speechless
boy will shout at the crack of a bat, and a deaf girl
will hear the sound of rain against her window.
Burn what is left of me and scatter the ashes to the
winds to help the flowers grow. If you must bury something,
let it be my faults, my weaknesses and all prejudice
against my fellow man.
Give my sins to the devil. Give my soul to God. If,
by chance, you wish to remember me, do it with a kind
deed or word to someone who needs you. If you do all
I have asked, I will live forever.
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